One of my friends gave me this advice about my dating life. Short and to the point, he said "date an older chick." That was it. Aparently that will solve everything and I will lead a happy and fulfilled life.
I'm being a bit sarcastic, and his advice was well meant, mostly because truth be told I've actually never dated anyone older than myself. And to clarify, for purposes of this conversation, I use the term "dated" in the sense of having at least a second date with the girl, not like it would generally be thought of as "going steady" or "having a relationship."
If I was to really work out what is holding back my dating life, clearly a therapist would probably have lots to say (that's what they do I think...not to mean that I have lots of problems, because I don't feel that I do), but I think it may have something to do with the fact that I'm fairly lazy in how I go about dating and am hopelessly attracted to beautiful girls who for some reason or another I can't date or they won't go out with me. Awesome, huh.
So, where does that leave me? Do I take my friend's advice to date older chicks or do I keep my low-key attitude and just go with the flow? I'll probably end up sticking with the chilled-out approach because that's who I am even though it is a bit slow right now you might say, but I would like to thank my friend for his insightful thoughts.
